Question
the girl i'm talking about has just died and her parents dedicated a rose to her memory

Answer
I have gone all through my rose data base and not one rose is named Elaine. The closest is Elina. Many nurseries will let you choose a name for one of their roses they have bred. If this is of interest to you then get in touch with Ashdown Roses nursery in South Carolina. They would be the best ones to help you and give you all the information you require.
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