Question
Should I leave the dead bloom alone or just gently remove the bloom leaving the little spects of yellow alone.When I do this,my plants look wierd with empty plant stems reachng for the sky. How far do I cut back? Or will they just drop off naturally. I'm too worried about the dead bloom.

Answer
Nancy,
I would love to see a photo of your plant just so I know I'm advising you correctly. However, if I understand you correctly, I would suggest that you gently pinch off the dead blooms. That is a good rule of thumb, to pinch all dead blooms off. It is actually nature's way of procreation-- this way plants can direct their energies into production of more blossoms. This pertains to all flowering plants, including roses. In fact, when roses are picked for bouquets the entire plant puts its energy into more flower production. Isn't nature a wonderful thing?!

With violets you can pinch off the blossom as far down to the leaves as possible; you are correct that they look odd, but it also sends the message to the plant that a dead bloom is gone and needs a new one. I usually suggest folks keep their violets moist at all times, warm (don't let them get too cold in winter), and to keep them in INDIRECT sunlight. In winter they can tolerate full sun on a windowsill, but in summer the light or sun must be indirect or filtered through a sheer curtain.

I hope I've answered your question.